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Lean Into Your Fear
When was the last time you did something that scared you? I’ll go first. Last weekend, I participated in an author festival at my local...
Mar 18


The Value of Values
My therapist and I talk a lot about values, and there's a very important reason for this. It's not because I don't understand what they...
Mar 1


How to Be Alone
For the first five and a half years of our marriage, my husband worked rotating shifts, including six weeks of night shift every six...
Feb 17


Stop Asking "What If?"
To put it mildly, it has been an emotional week in the United States. Former President Donald J. Trump won the presidential election...
Nov 6, 2024


Living a Cinematic Life
My husband and I have a little inside joke—at least, I think that’s the category it would fall into. Whenever we have experiences that...
Oct 9, 2024


Weathering Life's Storms
It has rained almost every day for the past two weeks. The pasture across the street from my house has been shrouded in a thick layer of...
Oct 3, 2024


When Thoughts No Longer Serve You
When I got a new refrigerator, I vowed it would not become a pinboard for coupons, appointment reminders, invitations, and cards. But...
Sep 2, 2024


Rivers in the Desert
My childhood home was a big, yellow farmhouse with a picket fence. I slept in a blush-pink room with a dormer that overlooked the front...
May 23, 2024


Mixed Metaphors and Bright Lights
As I get older, my vision gets worse. It usually isn’t an issue, but driving at night has become a challenge. I’m not sure when I stopped...
Apr 4, 2024


Catastrophe
The basketball pounds like a drum outside my office window. It’s 3:30 p.m., and the neighbor kids are home from school, playing a game of...
Mar 14, 2024


On Knitting
We thought we were lost. We’d been driving for two hours already, and the maps app told me to turn down a dirt road that looked like a...
Jan 28, 2023
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